Finding the Light

In my life I have many ups and downs. Most of the time I think it in my head. One of the things I would like to blog about today is LOVE. Many people think Love means different things. I believe love is being the other person’s other half. For example, I think two opposites make a right. I am outgoing and talkative and really don’t care who you are, if I make you laugh it makes my day. Now my husband is shy and not very personable. I mean he talks to people but not like me. I also think when you tell someone you love them, those are just words and it really doesn’t mean much or anything at all. I think love is touch, communication, and laughter. I feel if it’s not like that everyday then does the other person even love you. I feel like buying someone love is not love either. Like wow you spent that money and I still hate it. I love holding hands, the touch of the small of your back while you are walking with them. Sometimes it is like just opening the door for me. The laughter should come in every day. I feel like life now is always so serious. Also, communication. If you don’t talk about things in the relationship, then they never get solved. I love just laying in bed talking to my other half. Not texting and No Phones. I feel that’s where life went wrong. But just lying there laughing and talking and watching the other person laugh. It means so much that he would just listen to me. When you laugh and communicate face to face, you can kiss that person. It’s very hard to kiss someone through the phone.

So, look at your other half and see if you have that. Ask them to talk and laugh with you. It brings out so much more laugh and less fighting. Let them know it’s okay to put their phones down and just take in the scenery, or each others beautiful faces. Let me know what happens. I hope your spark comes back. The fun like it used to be and love that each of you need to have.